September 21st, 2007If I wanna survive on Haiguinet
If I wanna survive on haiguinet
1. Quit writing in English — key!
2. Quit "never wallow in the mire with those who are superficial" — why not!
3. Quit pursuing substantialness — go along with the flow!
4. Quit being so serious — it isn’t serious!
5. Quit detesting the world and its way — powerless!
6. Quit "emerge unstained from the filth" — I’m not a lotus!
7. Quit believing in "I’m unique and special" — does nothing good!
………
Well, guess what? I quit surviving on haiguinet if I quited all the above.
Yep! I am obstinate, regarding being myself.
September 21st, 2007 at 2:59 am
标题:阿罗一思考, 我就笑了
MM想当哲人?
September 21st, 2007 at 3:05 am
标题:Have fun , wiser56. LOL
September 21st, 2007 at 3:16 am
标题:嗯哪..
嘿嘿
September 21st, 2007 at 3:17 am
标题:我只是不明白姑娘为什么一直放松不下来。面对爱情,面对生活,面对工作,面对海龟网里的是是非非,姑娘的反应都体现着紧张。。
自信,是一种轻松大度的状态,是一种随遇而安的心情。
难道追求完美,追求卓越真的那么重要?真的比享受自然生活的本身更重要?
看过姑娘以前的贴子,总让人心中产生一种惶惶不安。。
姑娘心中为什么总是对那些事情“放不下”?
姑娘面对那次面试的结果内心所采取的反应,以及面对这一次在归网的讨论所产生的反应,是如此的一致。
其实,1到7都是些无关紧要的事情。
各色不同的人对于各色不同的事情有着各色不同的反应。
有趣,那么笑笑而已。无趣,那么略过而已。
太执著,心便会被约束住,会错过很多有趣的风景。
坛子里,有三个放松的典型,阿葱,阿鹰,还有三毛。
这三个家伙,放松到都快瘫到地上了。
笑一笑,然后,放下。
.
September 21st, 2007 at 3:22 am
标题:还有我,小饱最好!
不吃了,饿。。。吃饱了,撑。。。这样太紧张。。。
September 21st, 2007 at 3:40 am
标题:阿羞了的逻辑是标准的美女逻辑,不信。。。。。上张PP,震震他们!
September 21st, 2007 at 4:00 am
标题:It is what it is
Should realize this is just an internet message board.
Most people are here to bitch and moan and argue about things that are mostly pointless (like me).
Like you said, it isn'’t serious.
September 21st, 2007 at 4:08 am
标题:WC, 说谁呢?
我这可是一直还立着呢
September 21st, 2007 at 4:09 am
标题:对啊,对啊
小饱还有欲望在
September 21st, 2007 at 4:11 am
标题:阿空, 我可是很SERIOUS地
在灌水哦
September 21st, 2007 at 4:16 am
标题:阿葱笑跟没笑一样,每个贴都是露着大白牙笑,呼呼!有时上各种笑脸,烦死人了。
September 21st, 2007 at 4:30 am
标题:严重同意,不是一般化的烦人
September 21st, 2007 at 4:55 am
标题:嗯, 真的不是一般化的烦人
如果学会睁一只,闭一只,再歪歪嘴估计就不烦了. 估计这小鹰比较熟
September 21st, 2007 at 5:47 am
标题:不是什么搞搞震,上张照片,万事大吉,从此就算站住脚了
September 21st, 2007 at 6:45 am
标题:一个女孩出来混,不容易,大家饶了阿修罗MM吧。
楼下不少英语高手质疑阿修罗MM的英文。我看了一下,我不认为那些质疑make too much sense。英语最基本的目的,是用于交流的,我认为她写的英文,能完全让读者知道她的意思,那就很好了。尤其这种网上交流闲聊的事情,不涉及任何人切身利益,put simply,她写的英文不是用于谋取商业利益的,你们就不能严肃化,凑合着看。
其实我发现,很多native english speakers,即使用于严肃的商业场合时,写的英文也就那么个意思。我用了几个美国人,其中一个综合素质相当地高,写的也是最好的,但是,他写的英文,还被我们的一帮Russian哥们质疑。因为这是生意,关系到切身利益,我特认真对待,我发现,真是这帮不是native english speaker的Russian哥们写的更好,质疑的非常到位。所以,我们后来就desparately look for a professional writer,尤其那些懂我们的技术和产品的人。这事很难,到现在都没有找到这么个professional writer,因为skill set = english + writing + programming + business,太难有人能兼具这些skills。
我认为阿修罗MM在27岁表现出来的对自己的高度的自信,从总的来讲,是好事,龟坛应该多鼓励这样的说梦话的人才对。尤其对于一个女孩,因为我发现太多的女人没有自信,自信对于女人来说太重要了,比外表长的漂亮重要多了。兄弟们自己回想一下,你在她这么大的时候,是否比她还轻狂?20多不轻狂,难道30多才轻狂?老实说,我老人家比她大多了,我都还经常做梦。我认为做梦不是坏事,因为梦想通常是一些很伟大的事情的开始。根据小宝的亲身经历,我发现我最开始想的事情,在别人看来都是梦,但是,最终被我老人家做成了,知道的人无不佩服不已。其实我自己知道,我只是喜欢做梦罢了。我是吃几碗干饭的,我自己很清楚。
阿修罗MM,在online community听到各种声音,非常正常,不可take them so seriously。因为在online community,每个人都享有100% freedom。你无法控制别人如何看你,但是你可以控制自己如何看待别人:make sense的,你接受;不make sense的,看了就忘。只有具有这样高度的选择性,online communcation才能带给你快乐和好处。否则,坏处大于好处,online communcation就不值了。
September 21st, 2007 at 6:58 am
标题:阿修啊,sometimes we have to take it easy and relax, plus皮厚,
such as me, I have kept writing poor English here and had the honors to be corrected numerous times by, for instance, 哈女和 SS MM. I learn from my carelessness. 忠言涅耳阿. On the other hand, people here can always sugarcoat their remarks by saying you are such a beauty, so young and so smart and so forth, which can hardly do you any good, if you know what I mean.
IMHO.
If you cannot survive here, you might have difficulty surviving anywhere else.
my one cent from Shanghai.
September 21st, 2007 at 7:05 am
标题:老哥这话我爱听。怪不得小宝哥如此
有女人缘
September 21st, 2007 at 7:33 am
标题:O叔这句话, 我引小宝哥的这句来评论, "不make sense的,看了就忘"
别说我嫉妒哦
September 21st, 2007 at 7:33 am
标题:7~zhuang
September 21st, 2007 at 7:38 am
标题:还是我的宝哥哥好:-)))))))))
其实梦也作不了多久了,过不了几年俺就成小袋鼠们的妈妈了。
September 21st, 2007 at 7:40 am
标题:咋跑南半球去了?
September 21st, 2007 at 7:53 am
标题:不是皮不厚,关键是最近赖皮猫的出气筒不在。
赖皮猫看啥都不顺眼
September 21st, 2007 at 8:01 am
标题:俺倒是觉得这个MM可能以前太过自信,有有点幽闭,这次面试挫折,给刺激了一下,一时有些不知所错了
就因为是个漂亮MM,大家都着相了.
September 21st, 2007 at 8:34 am
标题:quit using big fancy words, kinda eye sore
how’’s your other interview going?
I have two for tomorrow, gotta quit watering for today…
best of luck
September 21st, 2007 at 11:17 am
标题:基本同意韦哥
看来小宝是一个比较make sense 的人。
不过我始终认为,有梦想和做白日梦,自信和轻狂,还是有区别的。我更尊敬有梦想,同时脚踏实地的努力,还很谦逊的人。对于女人,也是如此。
这时我个人观点。
换个角度,一个姑娘在网上嚷嚷几句,大家确实也不必苛责。她的自信到底是不是在合适的尺度上,怎样做对自己最好,生活会告诉她的。我们就别多嘴了。
September 21st, 2007 at 6:08 pm
标题:我也写两句,说得不对我也姓回胡
看看你的网名,说明了你的经历。很有能力、脾气很大、也可以有财富、长相要么奇丑,要么精灵古怪地漂亮。心中永远静不下来。跟你在一起,别人会感到紧张,你的表现肯定让你的面试官紧张,紧张什么呢?不一定是紧张你的能力,而是心里潜意识的紧张,害怕呀,老虎来了!
哎,阿修罗,可怜的阿修罗,什么时候才能静下来呢?
皈依我佛吧,阿弥陀佛!
September 21st, 2007 at 7:07 pm
标题:厉害啊,piafpiaf,最piaf母袋鼠了,deep pocket哦!
September 21st, 2007 at 7:25 pm
标题:应该把老葱发配到非洲去,把他的牙tan黑!
路人:葱啊,你吃的巧克力怎么总粘牙上啊?
September 22nd, 2007 at 1:56 am
标题:Do not quit writing in English, but
try to write more carefully.
Some of the underlined sentences have room for improvement.
*** *** *** ***
Don'’t hate me , because I am smart and beautiful!
Last week, I had an impeccable interview with an engagement manager for requiring to participate the project with General Electrical in P.R.China.
During the our conversation, I demonstrated that throughout academic and professional career, I had adhered to the highest standards of excellence and have demonstrated successful team leadership, strong communication skills, analytical ability, creativity, and dedication. In addition, my Chinese heritage, background, and experience would be a valuable asset for this offshoring project in China. Through the interview, he \"WOW\" three times about my credentials and insights…..
The outcome is what? He turned my application down. I was astonished and even the colleagues . I recalled all Q&A to my gurus and them draw a same conclusion : He definitely felt intimidated and he was green with envy. For him, you aren'’t harmless anymore.
Gosh! Suddenly I have a mixed feeling. As a consultant, you must be confident and competent. Otherwise you can'’t deal with these C-suit persons. In front of this similar age Caucasian guy, I shined myself and thought he would pick up the best of best candidates. The truth wakes me up: he picked the mediocre and \"harmless\" candidates. The experience definitely teach me something I haven'’t figure it out yet. Something isn'’t sunny.
What I want to say is \" Don'’t hate me , because I am smart and beautiful!\"
作者:阿修罗 在 海归主坛 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
Writing:
I have always had a subsc<x>ription of magazines such as Fortune , Forbes, Time, and the Business Week. Read 1 hr a day or however much time you have to spare. Keep a dictionary handy. When you see a new word, look it up and circle it in the magazine or newspaper. So at the end of reading session, go back and review your new words. Don’t try to go for quantity. Comb through the passage. When reading, I tried to analyze sentence structures. After finishing reading a sentence, I asked myself to re-construct it and compared what I did with the original.
Verb tense and personal pronouns are used too loosely here. Try to be consistent.
I received my training in writing mainly through technical writing and business writing courses. Edit your work first. Then ask somebody who you think is a good writer to critique your work.
Speaking:
Accent training, I hired a phonetic expert as my tutor and
listen radio can develop an ear to pick the new vocabulary with right pronunciation. I also give the public speech to different audiences periodically and I record my speech and rewind to figure my soft spots.
Meanwhile, as a project leader, I have to communicate assistants, collaborator and supervisors in English consistently and concisely.
My friends are all over the world, when we hook up we have to speak in English. They teach me slangs and colloquials.
*** *** ***
This is in no way trying to discourage you. Keep on practising. I noticed that IIFAN pointed out some of your grammatical mistakes already. He is pretty good and you should learn from him.
September 22nd, 2007 at 3:05 am
标题:不是老虎来了,而是鳄鱼来了:-)))
September 22nd, 2007 at 3:15 am
标题:谢谢, 我统统收下啦:-)))
September 22nd, 2007 at 4:33 am
标题:Pinguoshu1, Your words warm up my heart. I am grateful.
Actually this interview wasn'’t big deal at all. Trust me, there are many more important things in my life and move forward with my thick skin .
When everything is not quite ice cream and teddy bear for me, I do tend to look on the bright side of life and universe. Writing something besides real life online and being myself is great treat. It grants me the permission of doing nothing but relaxing moods. Here, I don'’t have to forget all by withdrawing myself.
Didn'’t I care too much? Didn'’t I realize, the inner peace itself was a pursuit and beyond?pression and characterization. All the changes may have associated with those feelings already departed.
I don'’t wanna have so much get-and-go. I don'’t wanna handle everything with kid gloves. I wish I could count my chickens before they hatch. I wish I am brainless, so there is a way out. Many things may never be any words of ex
BTW, did my words touch sth deep in your heart? I didn'’t mean to intrude.
September 22nd, 2007 at 7:28 am
标题:哎呀呀,在归网好混得很。主坛有委屈找小宝,实在撑不住了来咱家的98,保证没人欺负你。英文啥的随便说!
September 22nd, 2007 at 8:18 am
标题:my ex had similar issue
Doing institution sales for an investment bank, she speaks 5 languages and has a sense of entitlement.
It was quite painful to read her stuff too….
If someone does not receive formal training in writing by college, it becomes ‘’mission impossible'’